Monday, September 16, 2024

Weeds and Procrastination

I WAS WORKING IN MY RAISED
FLOWER BED TODAY

CUTTING OUT THE WEEDS THAT 
WERE OVERTAKING MY IRIS PLANTS!




I HAD ALLOWED THE WEEDS TO GET OUT OF CONTROL

I KNEW THEY WERE GETTING BAD
I JUST IGNORED THEM
I MADE MORE WORK FOR MYSELF 
WITH MY PROCRASTINATION!


I HAVE ALSO BEEN WORKING ON MY YARD IN GENERAL
I ALLOWED ALL THE WEED AREAS
TO GET COMPLETELY OUT OF CONTROL
MAKING IT HARD TO GET THEM DONE AT ONCE
I FINALLY DECIDED THEY NEEDED TAKEN CARE OF





I MADE SO MUCH MORE WORK FOR MYSELF!
I HAD TO TAKE EACH AREA A LITTLE AT A TIME
A FEW MINUTES AT A TIME
SEVERAL DAYS HAD TO BE DEVOTED TO THE WORK!


IF I HAD CHOSEN TO KEEP UP ON THE WEEDS
I WOULD HAVE HAD LESS WORK TO TO
LESS TIME WOULD HAVE BEEN GIVEN TO THE TASK
IT DEFINITELY WOULD HAVE KEPT THINGS LOOKING NICER!






PROCRASTINATION IN LIFE IS LIKE WEEDS


YOU PUT OFF WHAT YOU SEE BEFORE YOU
KNOWING IT WILL NOT TAKE MUCH TIME TO FIX 
YET, YOU STILL MAKE A 
CHOICE 
NOT TO TAKE CARE OF IT




 IN THE END 
THIS CHOICE, 
MAKES IT MORE TIME CONSUMING
HARDER TO RESOLVE
DEFINITELY MORE WORK!

 IF YOU HAD JUST TAKEN CARE OF IT
AS SOON AS YOU KNEW YOU HAD AN ISSUE
YOU WOULD HAVE MOVED ON 
TO MORE PLEASANT ACTIVITIES SOONER!


LIFE CHOICES ARE LIKE THE WEEDS
 IN MANY WAYS


SITUATIONS CAN GET OUT OF CONTROL
WHEN YOU DON'T ADDRESS THE ISSUES 
IMMEDIATELY...

RESENTMENT CAN GROW
ROOTS OF DISSENSION CAN DIG DEEPER
EVEN SMALL, SURFACE ISSUES
 CAN BECOME A MUCH LARGER PROBLEM 
WHEN YOU CHOOSE TO IGNORE
WHEN YOU CHOOSE TO AVOID
WHEN YOU CHOOSE TO PUT IT ASIDE.

PROCRASTINATION WILL ALLOW 
RESENTMENT TO GROW
THE ROOTS GETTING DEEPER AND DEEEPER 
SO WHEN YOU FINALLY ADDRESS THINGS...




IT TAKES LONGER TO WORK THROUGH
IT LEAVES BEHIND SEEDS OF DOUBT
THAT CAN RETURN LATER
TO START GROWING DEEP ROOTS ALL OVER AGAIN.

THINKING OF HOW THE ONCE OVERGROWN AREAS
LOOK SO MUCH BETTER ONCE I HAVE PUT IN THE WORK
I WAS THINKING THE SAME FOR 
OUR PROCRASTINATION IN LIFE SITUATIONS

RELATIONSHIPS CAN BE REBUILT
RESENTMENTS CAN BE AVOIDED
FRUSTRATIONS CAN BE KEPT LOW
COMMUNICATION CAN MAINTAIN A HEALTHY BALANCE


YOU FEEL BETTER
THE OTHER PERSON FEELS BETTER
LIFE CAN BE MUCH SMOOTHER
WHEN YOU DON'T AVOID
WHEN YOU DON'T PROCRASTINATE
WHEN YOU PUT IN THE WORK REGULARLY
WHEN YOU KEEP THE WEEDS OUT!

HOW CAN  YOU ENSURE THAT WEEDS DON'T GROW
IN YOUR FRIENDSHIPS
IN YOUR PERSONAL REALTIONSHIPS
AT YOUR WORK PLACE, 
WITH YOUR COWORKERS AND MANAGERS?



ACTIVELY ADDRESS ISSUES AS THEY ARISE
DON'T MAKE A CHOICE OF PROCRASTINATION
DON'T ALLOW 'WEEDS' TO GROW 
KEEP THE LINES OF COMMUNICATION OPEN 
WHEN SOMETHING IS WRONG
ALWAYS TREAT ONE ANOTHER WITH 
RESPECT AND HONESTY
WORK TO BE OPEN TO SUGGESTIONS 
THAT WORK FOR BOTH PARTIES.

WILL THIS PROCESS ALWAYS BE 
A PRETTY ROSE GARDEN?

ABSOLUTELY NOT!
IN LIFE - THERE WILL BE THORNS!

THERE WILL NEED TO BE WORK PUT IN
YOU WILL NEED TO BE ALERT!

THAT GOES FOR THE OTHER PARTY AS WELL
THEY ALSO HAVE TO BE WILLING TO WORK WITH YOU
THEY HAVE TO VALUE THE RELATIONSHIP
AS MUCH AS YOU DO FOR THE FLOW TO WORK!

I ENCOURAGE YOU TO CLEAR OUT THE WEEDS 
IN YOUR FRIENDSHIPS
IN YOU RELATIONSHIPS
IN YOUR WORK RELATIONSHIPS
IN YOUR FAMILY RELATIONSHIPS


EVEN A SMALL PLANT NEEDS SUPPORT
AND CARE SO IT CAN CONTINUE TO GROW!


YOU WILL FEEL THE BEAUTY IN THE WORK
LIKE HOW IT IS WITH 
A WELL-TENDED FLOWER GARDEN!

 


DON'T FORGET THE WATER

WATER 
IS THE LIFE-BLOOD OF GROWTH
THAT MEANS :

ATTENTION
CARE
INVESTED TIME
LOVE AND COMPASSION
EMPATHY



WHERE ARE THE WEEDS YOU NEED TO REMOVE?
WHERE DO YOU NEED TO ADD WATER TO?

IT IS SO WORTH THE EFFORT!

YOUR SOUL WILL SING
YOU WILL SMILE MORE
AND THE SUN WILL SHINE MORE OFTEN!





I HOPE THIS ENCOURAGES YOU 

NOT TO PROCRASTINATE
TO CHOOSE TO DO THE WORK
WATERING ALONG THE WAY
SO YOU CAN REAP ALL THE WONDERFUL BENEFITS!!

BLESSINGS!
DARLENEBL ©2024








 


 

Thursday, September 5, 2024

Stay Steady

 

STAY STEADY

Life has a way of either propelling you along or stopping you in your tracks
This is something I think everyone battles at some point in their lives.

How do you stay steady...
When you lose a close friend...
When you lose a close family member...
When your house needs major work done...
When you have a career shift...
When things just put you into 'halt mode'...
Staying Steady is sometimes not an easy thing!!
It is not always a clear path or thought!


I have noticed a shift in my life in general lately...
The turning point was my last birthday. I turned 60 ❤️
I have shifted into the ' younger senior' portion of my life.
I don't necessarily look like a senior is why I say it is the younger senior portion 🤔
I also don't always feel like a senior!
I definitely forget many times that when I see 'older people'
I have to remind myself that I am now closer to being that person!

I have many varied friendships
All ages - all walks of life.
We enjoy one another's company 
Age is really only a number!
Age is just a state of mind!
Thankfully, I still move better than I should!

Staying Steady when you are a bit lost...
Is an experience everyone gets to have at least once, at any point in their existence while living in this crazy world.
How you deal with it depends on your support system...
How you deal with it also depends on your mental support system...


Staying steady when things change can be difficult and hard.
Staying steady can also mean you just embrace the changes, 
Looking forward to what is yet to come!
Life is ever changing - no matter what season you are in:


Children grow up and move out
Those children start living their own adult lives
They don't need you in quite the same way
You aren't really needed to kiss skinned knees
You aren't really needed to fix a crushed heart
You aren't really needed to be at their beck and call

However, You ARE needed to stay steady
You ARE needed to be there when they need advice
You ARE needed to be there when they want to know about family history
You ARE needed simply because you are YOU!


'Stay steady' is described in many ways:
It can be about your mental and emotional state...
Whether you are a rock or you are like the wind - always moving...
Staying Steady can also mean
Staying calm, even when your world is chaotic...
We are definitely living in uncertain times right now!
Staying Steady can really mean just not going with the crowd!
Staying steady is also something
that you might give to another 
who is really struggling!


I told a friend the other day that I was not prone to depression perse...
I do have some moments where I am sad - but they don't last for very long!
I have always been wired this way.
I listen to music that pulls me back.
I delve deeper into my faith and I recover my joy
I write a blog to uplift others (And myself)
I read a great book and laugh 😃  (And sometimes cry)
I just don't stay down long!
I absolutely have my moaning and groaning periods - that I snap out of fairly  quickly.


I have many people in my world - that snapping back or pulling themselves back into the positive side isn't easy or even possible.
I try to provide an ear to listen...
I try to have the shoulder to cry on...
I try to just be there...
I attempt to stay steady for them!

Some have life experiences that scar them forever...
Some have losses that continually hurt their hearts...
Some have a rough time with their depression and overall mental health...
Some just need someone who will stay steady...
Someone to count on...
Someone to lean on...
Someone to give light to their darkness...
Someone to hold them up when they are knocked down...
Someone to tell them that they are WORTHY!!
Because who really doesn't need that at low points in their lives?


Am I perfect in every way?
ABSOLUTELY NOT!!
 
I fall
I fail
I stumble
I grumble
I moan and whine
I lose sight of the beauty of life

If I fall, I stand back up!
When I fail, I try again!
When I stumble, I keep going!
When I grumble, I count my many, many blessings!
When I moan and whine  
I try to look for any silver linings.
When I lose sight of the beauty of life
I take a walk outside at sunset or when the stars are in a beautiful dark sky.

It isn't always a quick process!
It definitely isn't easy to stay steady -
especially during chaos!
I am definitely ready...
Are you?

Who can you encourage today?
Who can you lift up and share joys with?
Who needs a shoulder to cry on?
Who needs a listening ear with no judgements?
Who can you Stay Steady for?

Have a blessed week and remember...



                  Be Blessed! 💕
                 DarleneBl ©️2024
  


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